Where is my Lebenslangerschicksalsschatz?

Today i had watch how i met your mother season 8 serial 1 and this is the best scene of the movie. I will just write it down hope you can feel the great moment although it is just a conversation text. And it is started on the station when the Klaus being asked by ted about why he left victoria, and the dialog continue to:

There is a word in German: Lebenslangerschicksalsschatz.
And the closest translation would be…

’Lifelong Treasure of Destiny.’

And Victoria is wunderbar, but she is not my Lebenslangerschicksalsschatz.
She is my Beinaheleidenschaftsgegenstand, you know?

It means…’the thing that is almost the thing that you want…
but it’s not quite.’

“Lebenslangerschicksalsschatz is not something that develops over time.
It is something that happens instantaneously.
It courses through you like the water of a river after a storm, filling you and emptying you all at once.
You feel it throughout your body…
in your hands…
in your heart…
in your stomach…
…in your skin…
Of course you feel it in your Schlauchmachendejungen, pardon my French.” Klaus (How I Met Your Mother)

Have you ever felt this way about someone?

Yeah, I think so.

If you have to think about it, you have not felt it.

And you’re absolutely sure you’ll find that someday?

Of course. Everyone does eventually.

You just never know when or where.

And, the story continue to ted met the girl with the yellow umbrella and then the film is ended. This is make me wonder when or where i can find the Lebenslangerschicksalsschatz? and i sometime wonder do i have met my Lebenslangerschicksalsschatz but not realize it. But i don’t missed it because if i think about it then it is not my Lebenslangerschicksalsschatz, maybe it is my Beinaheleidenschaftsgegenstand or my wunderbar i missed. But eventually i will met my Lebenslangerschicksalsschatz, and for meantime i will upgrade myself to be my best self. So when i met her i will become her Lebenslangerschicksalsschatz too.

Desire Wisdom

With Desire emerge Sad, with Desire emerge Fear, Person without Desire than will not feel Fear and Sad” It’s one of Buddhist enlightenment and hard to implement in real life.

But there are an easy way to control our desire. First we must know what desire is happen when we want something, it is like when we want to eat more than we can take that it’s a greed desire. Or when we want to punch people that it’s a hate desire. After we know what desire happen then next step is think benefit of our act. If it is give you a benefit like when we buy food for extend our life or when we buy dress for cover us from heat, then just do it but not overdo it. But if it is not give you any benefit than leave it in your mind like when we buy dress for style, or even for a show then don’t do it.

Last step is knowing our ego because we tend to think our act is right or in this case give benefit if we want it. So, after you think it’s give you benefit than you must filter it with your ego. Do the act really give benefit or your ego tell that the act is give a benefit? how can we seperate it, of course no easy way to know it but deep in your feeling you know it. It is like when we want to eat in expensive place and we think it is for extend our life, but deep in your heart you know that is your ego talking then you must don’t do the act.

But what will life become if we follow it? of course it will be sad for us because nobody is perfect. This is just for your information and you can try to doing that sometimes and control your desire but if you want to follow your desire at least you aware what desire is come and give a peace in your heart.

Source : Samanera in Vihara

Quote of The Day

If somebody cannot Change again, then the Time is over for Him

This Quote is seem so simple, but it’s has a deep meaning for me. Because this quote tell me that nothing is static even the change itself. So if you think it’s feel good when hang out with same friend, or it’s feel good with your attitude, or it’s good with your surrounding environment or it’s good to wake up late. Then you must think it’s danger because you don’t want to go out from your comfort zone. Because if you don’t want to change then the Time is over for you. It’s not mean you must abandon your friend, or you just do something crazy just because you want to change. But it’s mean you must change to positive direction like maybe you’re a person that wake up late then you trying to wake up earlier. I know it’s hard to wake up much earlier but you can just wake up earlier one second. Then you progress day by day and then it’s will be habit. And you will be surprise because you will wake up without alarm, or maybe you wake up one hour earlier.

That meaning of the quote if we look from life side, but if we looking from bussines side. It’s will mean if you don’t want to change your best product, then you will be a loser. Because your best product maybe now it had a very good selling, but if you don’t make it better then the competitor will make a same product with lower price, or with good wrap, or with little improvement, And your customer will buy from your competitor because they give more advantages than your product. So, if your product now become top of the top selling in your region or maybe in the national or even in the world, then you must prepare with better product now and don’t wait until your product have bad selling. Because it’s too late, and you will be out of competition.

But if we look from personal matter, maybe you think it’s mean that we must keep our best personality and dump our bad personality. Or we think our personality is best of the best from everyone, but actually there are not every personality can be categorized, like Introvert, or Extrovert. This Personality is tell our preference with world and nothing in the world can say it’s wrong to become introvert or Nothing in the world can say it’s good to become extrovert because it’s come from our feeling deep inside our heart. But if you don’t want to change, then the Time is over for you. Because if you’re too quiet then everyone who not know you will think you arrogant, and your friend tend to forget you because they not know your mind. Or if you too noisy than everyone who not know you will think you annoying people, and your friend tend to forget you because they think you too energic. So, sometimes is better to become quiet and sometimes is better to become noisy but it’s better you combine it.

End of the word, “You must change to be better person“.

source : Intisari oktober 2008.

Wisdom Quotes

“There’s no such thing as destiny. There are only different choices. Some choices are easy, some aren’t. Those are the really important ones, the ones that define us as people.” from Number 23

“The truth is you can never tell yourself there is only one thing you can be. You cannot make a real commitment unless you accept that it’s a choice you keep making again and again and again.” from Keeping the Faith

“It is not our abilities that show what we truly are, it is our choices.” from Harry Potter and The Chamber of Secret

“I am not going to sit on my ass as the events that affect me unfold to determine the course of my life. I’m going to take a stand. I’m going to defend it. Right or wrong, I’m going to defend it.” from Ferris Bueller’s day Off

Just quotes for friend that still wondering their mind.

Source : http://www.reellifewisdom.com