Need, key to understand what important

Many people in lives can eat, drink, watch tv, chat with friend, doing hobbies, have families, and etc. But, they still find is not enough then try to reach everything they want and quarrel if their life is not good. That is because they think that thing in their life is take for granted. And they just realize that is important when it lost and they need it. Now up to you, what will you prefer: lost it first and then being forced to know what important or you think first what you need and then embrace it. So, Lets find your need and stop chasing what you want. Happy Finding your needs.

Wrong Wisdom

Today when watch Mario Teguh there is one audience that asked about why even if he loved his wife more than his self why he easy to fall in love with other woman?. So, Mario Teguh said that child is normally to play around to growth their self, then they become adult and take next step to be responsible and understand what right for their self and stop playing with their self. Then Mario Teguh continued said that this man is still playing with his self and need to go to next step, and Mario Teguh asked so what he think about his statement before? He still said that is okay to love every one if he still love his wife more.

So, Mario Teguh said again that “Wrong is actually faith about what we believe is right by ourselves“. And then some thing pop up in my head which is that so wise and truth, so i think it’s needed to be spread. So, when i wrong then someone can give me hint by said that because i often just looked from one side like that men and become blind by my faith, and hopefully i will aware and change my mind, Thanks.

Last, let’s we read it again and saved it in our brain “Wrong is actually faith about what we believe is right by ourselves

source : Golden ways by Mario Teguh

7 Up

7 Up word as key to success:

1. WAKE UP
No matter how often do you fail, if you more often wake up and started again, we will success.

2. DRESS UP
Inner beauty is more important just outside ornament that temporary. Have abundance mentality, output from respect and deep safe feeling. This is will make availability to share respect, benefit, and responsibility.

3. SHUT UP
Stop talking about previous success, and focus ourselves for our next success.

4. STAND UP
Stand fast of your initial belief that we are certainly success.

5. LOOK UP
When grand opening of Disney Land, a reporter asked wife of late Walt Disney “How would his feeling when seen his dream come true with the opening of this Disney Land?” She answered “He already seen all of this long time ago before this project even exist” Look all our dream inside our imagination as if all already come true.

6. REACH UP
Reach something higher than your previous achievement that sign of we are really grow.

7. LIFT UP
Raise all our dream into benediction pray as if all already come true.

Happy Birthday to Me, hope i can conquer all the road block, obstacle, or even wall and wish i can catch all opportunity, fortune, and success to reach all my dream. HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!

source: someone special

Primary Treasure

There is 4 primary treasures in the world, and we just don’t pay enough attention into it and pursuit another treasures that look more shining. First treasure in the world is believing your religion, because if you have doubt about your religion than your life will spinning like “gasing”. How about Atheist? of course they can believing their religion which is no god in the world and everything is must made by their on hand.

Second treasure in the world is morality, because if you don’t have it so we don’t have it then we will fall into darkness, and also that separate us from animal. How about Criminal? of course even they are the most bad person in the world, they still limited some of their act in morality.

Third treasure in the world is hiri and otapa because if you don’t have it then we going to do anything without think the consequence and going to make ourself in danger. Hiri meaning is shy to do something and otapa is afraid to something. How about children? of course they still pure in mind and will do anything because they just curious, so it is our task to take care of children and give guidance.

Last treasure in the world is knowledge because if we don’t have it then we going to need other to help ourselves. How about stupid person? of course they will need other person to help in their weakness, but if they try to acquire wisdom of their weakness constantly then it will not be their weakness again even it can be their strength.

After knowing primary treasure in the world, now it is up to you to try have it or pursue another secondary treasure in the world.

source : sermon on last month.

Buddhist Extinct

Buddhist now days is in danger of extinction, because there so many buddhist dogma that different, buddhist figure that different, dhamma lesson that different, and worship in buddhist that different. It’s like Buddha Gotama said that there is 5 ways to tell if buddhist is gone to extinct.

First, when nobody is respect Buddha again especially Buddha Gotama because today we still in his era. Now days, there is so many buddhist dogma that respect other buddha which is their era still not come, or respect other person that not is Buddha, even respect other life than person. So, it look like bad sign tell that buddhist will extinct. But we can still fix it by remember what Buddha show as good example of person, then respect Buddha again,

Second, when nobody is respect Dhamma again. Now days, there is so many buddhist book that have another interpretation of sutta, or there is so many buddhist preaching that have it’s interpretation. So, it look like more bad sign tell that buddhist will extinct. But we can still fix it by learn from the source of sutta from digha nikaya, majjhima nikaya, anguttara nikaya, samyuta nikaya, and khuddaka nikaya or even if interested further you can learn in abhidhamma pitaka. After you understand it, then respect Dhamma again.

Third, when nobody is respect Sangha again. Now days, there is Sangha member that married, Sangha member that do crime, so we lose our respect to Sangha. Another bad sign of extinction of buddhist, but it’s actually wrong because it’s just one person not all the Sangha, and Sangha is one of the best place to harvest good karma. Even it’s still give same result if we funded bad Sangha member if our intention is to funded Sangha, so what you afraid of. So, let’s we respect Sangha again.

Fourth, when nobody is doing practice Dhamma. Now days people tent to have seminar than buddhist preaching, or people think Sila is not important and just rush into samadhi, or people think doesn’t need to do samadhi if we have wisdom, or just have jhana is enough. It’s look like buddhist will go in extinction faster before this buddhist era is told to be end. Because that point of think is wrong and we need all the eight way to freedom, so it is better if we mastered one or more ways but it is not enough to just have one or more. So, let’s do right practice Dhamma again and go to freedom together.

The Last, when nobody is doing Samadhi or meditasi. We are very busy so we can’t have spare time to do meditasi every day, and that is our reasonable reason to avoid have meditasi and keep our peace in mind. So, it really extinction will come very soon because all the sign is happen. We need to know that our thinking is wrong and fix it because doesn’t have time it just a reason and if really want something we somehow will have time. So what we must change is our mind and spare our time to do meditasi just 15 minutes or more.

After know all the sign of buddhist extinction, it’s up to us to preserve buddhist. Let’s we preserve buddhist and make many people going to freedom.

source : Buddhis Preaching in Waesak Days.

Fear Wisdom

Fear, it is something that we not have guts to do, and not just we afraid of. If we not take care of fear then in long time it can be phobia, and it’s need extra effort to get rid of. Even the bravest people will have at least one fear so, it’s normal to have fear even if it is more than one fear. The reason of fear sometimes is weird, irrational, and crazy. But fear will make their act is postpone or even not done and make their life become miserable. Fear is act of our body to increase our awareness so you will be careful and avoid danger. So, It is natural to be fear but just not let fear block your success. “Brave is when you still do something that you fear most”. So be brave and reach your success.

Date

Date is can be indicator of time of day but i mean that is appointment to met from two opposite gender. Usually we prepare the best before going to date and hope for the best. But if date is go wrong what must we do? to know answer of that we must know what we do in date, what must we prepare for date and what must we follow up after date. To prepare for date is more easy than another two phase, and you just hope it is run smoothly.

First important in date is Continue reading “Date”

Soulmate

Soulmate, everyone dream of get their soulmate and think it must be the one and the one only. So, if they get mate then they compare it with their ideal partner and if something wrong happen then they will think their partner is not their soulmate. Therefore they will try and try until they find someone that suitable enough with their ideal partner.

But until some time then they give up to find their soulmate and find someone that close enough with their soulmate and be together. Then they live with their partner but there something in their heart still searching for the soulmate and sometimes if they found someone better they will betray their partner to be together with someone they think their soulmate. So, they think their life will be happy but at the end it will be miserable.

So, lets change your mind about soulmate. Soulmate is more than one and soulmate is might be opposite with your ideal partner. Because if soulmate just one then what happen if your soulmate die before you met them, or why you can love for more than one person if your soulmate is the one. Or why at the first you have doubt about someone if soulmate is the one or what happen if you miss your chance to met your soulmate because you busy. There is so many reason why soulmate is more than one person.

So it is more likely you will have several soulmate and you will miss chance to met some of them or your soulmate will miss chance to met you. But if you find someone you feel attracted or love than that is your soulmate and you must try your hardest to be their soulmate because emotion can’t be explained but you had this feeling toward them so it must be your soulmate.

The reason the soulmate might be opposite from your ideal partner is because what happen if your soulmate ideal partner with other person and your ideal partner with your soulmate or why your ideal partner is change from time to time or why your ideal partner is like your copycat or what happen if because they change their character to be your ideal partner but you just feel empty from their heart.

So it is more likely you will find some of great character from your soulmate that improve your character, and you will improve your soulmate character by your character. And it is not always character that you think your ideal partner must had before met you but this is will always make you and your soulmate character growth. Because i think ideal partner will always make their character and their partner character growth.

So, what you waiting for? go find your soulmates out there and don’t doubt about them because you will not know it is until you try. Happy hunting your soulmates.

Sri Mulyani Indrawati

Sri Mulyani Indrawati, is one of the best government people in Indonesia. She make economy in Indonesia going into good direction. Indonesia now is better than before cause now if the rules is followed then it make people in the finances hard to mess up with system. But because of that some of the people feel like trap and want to get the freedom. And then they going into politic and try to beat down Sri Mulyani Indrawati to get their freedom again.

So they playing around with Century, RAPBN, Whistle Blow in tax officer to beat down Sri Mulyani Indrawati. In their defense about their act is because they want justice for people but that is not true they just want their freedom back. Cause so many of them then they playing around with news and laws to beat down Sri Mulyani Indrawati and make her life become hard to implement more good rules in finances. In my defense about Sri Mulyani Indrawati even if she guilt to let Century happen, we must not look through that way because it is just a dot black ink in the ocean, so why bother if Indonesia just loss little than it should be if finance become mess up. Every one make mistake because they just Human.

Then come offer from World Bank to Sri Mulyani Indrawati to become managing director and she took the job. So, Indonesia will lose it’s best men again and they will win then Indonesia going down. Hope it is not going down into ravine but just into hill. It’s will be Indonesia loss no matter what act that Sri Mulyani Indrawati take because if she not take the job then she can’t going further to make Indonesia better. And if she take the job then economic in Indonesia fall.

It’s because she being cornered then it is time to fight back so no matter what act she take then Indonesia in loss. Congratulation for Sri Mulyani Indrawati for new job, hope Indonesia name will shine in the world. And then Indonesia ready to take back it’s best people. Last word, it just opinion and one sided think from me without fact so if you not agreed just keep in your heart, because i just want to cry about Indonesia loss and tell my opinion why Indonesia must cry too.

Tagline Changed

Dear Readers,

Now i change the tag-line of my blog from Daily Wisdom to Happiness into Deni Perspective of World. This change is needed because i think my blog is topic now change from what i plan before(deliver a wisdom every day to make everyone light up their day). And i thinks this new tag-line is suitable for now. Because:
– sometimes about wisdom is come from my perspective,
– sometimes about my wildness mind,
– sometimes about interesting thing in my life,
– sometimes about new stuff that i find interesting,
– sometimes about tips that i found useful.
But I hope i still can live up your day even though i not every day make post and it is not always about wisdom. So i hope you enjoy it.
Thanks for reading my blog.